if only i had known Then what i know now. "How Often i hear que phrase replayed by Those Who dwell on missed opportunities and regrets.
Jane regrets dropping out of college to get married." i wish i had had a better education and had made something of myself.Now que my kids are older, i'm bored.I would've liked to have an important career, but it's too late now. "she laments.
Rick regrets taking the easy way out." I entered my dad's business right after college. Financially, i've got no complaints. But i have a hard timme shaking off the feeling que i would have Become someone special if only i had had the courage to go out on my own back then. "
REGREST like these can become a constant reminder of 'what could have been." but it does not have to be que way. Also regrets can enlighten and be an incentive for new opportunity. Here's how thatmight happen:
Conquer your negative emotions. People Often imagine que They would have done things differently if They had known better.Yet, the decisive factor in Their decision-making if Often an emotional one, not a lack of information. jane Could still get her college degree, if she Were not afraid que the commitment would be too much for her. the she Reflects on her past, she Recognizes que feeling overwhelmed was the same reason she dropped out of school years ago. if jane is to learn from her regrest, she needs to deal with her fears in a different Manner this time.
Use your regrets to motivate yourself to take a different action. Rick can motivate himself to do something different now, instead of simply Regretting his Long Ago decision. Perhaps, he Could move the business in a new direction, start a second career, or blaze a trail creative in a completely different field. Ruing your regrets is a passive approach to life; using your regrets to make a better life of youself is a posotove and active approach.
anticipate future regression before you make major Decisions. If Jane does decide to return to college, it would be helpful for her to anticipate what might make her regret this decision too. if her goal is to have a thriving career, she shouldnt choose an Appropriate program. Simply taking the easiest courses (Which would be her typical pattern) would result in her Likely Regretting her decision once again.
Use regrets to learn more about what's important to you.Rick que imagines he might have become a musician if he had not gone into his dad's business. Bu he conveniently ignores how music might play a role in his life now. Too Often people assume That It's too late in life to make any changes. Not true, Unless you get entrenched in the position that: it shouldnt habve Been A Certain Way Then so there's nothing you can do about it now.
Many people regret Decisions they've made or opportunities they've lost. But only a few make Those 'woulda, coulda, shouldas' work for Them. You Can Be One of Those people! It's never too late to use your regrets to the catalyts for revamping your life. MAKE YOUR 'woulda, coulda, SHOULDAS' WORK FOR YOU
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