Learning From Your RegretsLearning with your regrets"If only I knew what I know now". How many times have I heard the phrase repeated by those who dwell on missed opportunities and regrets.Jane regrets dropping out of College to get married. " I wish I had a better education and had done something to me. Now that my children are older, I'm bored. I would like to have a career, but it's too late now, "she laments.Rick regrets taking the easy way out. " I entered my father's business right after college. Financially, I don't have any complaints. But I have a had time to shake the feeling that I would become someone special if only I had the guts to go out alone at that time. "Regrets like these can become a constant reminder of "what might have been." But it doesn't have to be that way. Regrets can also illuminate and be an incentive for new opportunity. Here's how it can happen:Conquer your negative emotions. People often imagine that they would have done things differently if they knew better. However, the deciding factor in yourdecision-making is often an emotional affair, not a lack of information. Jane could sttill get his college degree, if she wasn't afraid of the commitment would be too much for her. As she reflects on her past, she acknowledges that the feeling overwhelmed was for the same reason, she dropped out of school years ago. If Jane is to learn with apologies, she needs to deal with your fears in a different way this time.Use your regrets to motivate yourself to take a different action. Rick can motivate yourself to do something different now, instead of simply lamenting that his decision long ago. Perhps, could move the business in a new direction, start a second career or call a creative trail in a completely different field. Ruin your regrets is a passive approach to life; using your regrets to make a better life for yourself is a positive and active approach.Before taking important decisions, anticipate future regrets. If Jane does decide to return to return to College, it would be useful to anticipate what she can make her regret this decision too. If your goal is to have a thriving career, she must choose a suitable program. By simply taking the courses easier (which would be the typical pattern) would probably result in her regretting her decision once again. Use regrets to learn more about what is important to you. Rick mighat suppose he became a musician, if he hadn't gone into your father's business. But he conveniently ignores how music can play a role in your life now. Often people assume that it's too late in life to make any changes. It's not true, unless you're entrenched in that position: it should have been in some ways, then, then there's nothing you can do about it now.Many people made decisions or regret opportunities they have lost. But only a few are those who "would, could, shouldas ´ work for them. You can be one of these people. It's never too late to use your regrets as a catalyst to reshape your life."Make your would have, could have, shouldas work for you. Learning with your regrets"If only I knew what I know now". How many times have I heard the phrase repeated by those who dwell on missed opportunities and regrets.Jane regrets dropping out of College to get married. " I wish I had a better education and had done something to me. Now that my children are older, I'm bored. I would like to have a career, but it's too late now, "she laments.Rick regrets taking the easy way out. " I entered my father's business right after college. Financially, I don't have any complaints. But I have a had time to shake the feeling that I would become someone special if only I had the guts to go out alone at that time. "Regrets like these can become a constant reminder of "what might have been." But it doesn't have to be that way. Regrets can also illuminate and be an incentive for new opportunity. Here's how it can happen:Conquer your negative emotions. People often imagine that they would have done things differently if they knew better. However, the deciding factor in yourdecision-making is often an emotional affair, not a lack of information. Jane could sttill get his college degree, if she wasn't afraid of the commitment would be too much for her. As she reflects on her past, she acknowledges that the feeling overwhelmed was for the same reason, she dropped out of school years ago. If Jane is to learn with apologies, she needs to deal with their fears of a different form of
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